Lady in Waiting

Single Jewish Lady waiting to get out of New York.

Tuesday, December 19, 2006

"Like You"

Sorry it's been a while. I just havn't had much time lately. Don't ask what I've been doing. I have no idea. But since it's been awhile, I decided to start off with a dating story. We all love those right? Well, here we go. My friend set me up with this guy that she kinda knew. She stated it very clearly that she knows him but not everything about him. But felt like we would make a great match. I was really really skeptical of this. I really didn't want to date anyone who wasn't vouged for completely, but she kept insisting. So I finally said yes. I felt like this would get her off my back and finally prove to her that I don't date well, and you shouldn't set anyone up with me, becuase the worst in that person will come out and no one wants to see that side of them. Well, as it turns out, he wasn't that bad. Nice guy. Took me to a museum for the first date. Kinda spacy. Kinda off track. Kinda weird. But still, it wasn't the worst date I had ever been on, so at the end of the date, when he asked me out again, I hesitantly said sure. Fine, the first date didn't leave me shaking or wanting to drink enough to forget the date. Second date came around, took me out. Just didn't quiet click. We were two completely different people. He was sooo Broklyn, I am so not. He was so into his clotheing labels, I am only a little. (and more). So at the end of the date, while we were still pretty far from my apartment. He asked me how I thought it was going. Well, I didn't want to go out with him. I knew this before I went on the date when I didn't want to answer any of his phone calls. So I told him straight out. I didn't think our dynamic worked well together. We were two completely different people. He was a Broklynite. I wouldn't step foot into Broklyn and so forth. I didn't think I could be any clearer that I didn't want to go out with him. So how do you think he reacted. "Well, let me tell you what I'm looking for. I'm looking for someone nice, like you. Someone outgoing and laid back, like you. Someone from out of town, with the out of town mentality, like you. ......... Oh, look at the beautiful stars. Isn't this a great night........ like you." Now, it seems like to me, he didn't hear a word I said. I had to use all of my strength to keep from laughing. He was so serious about everything he was saying. Yet, I didn't care. I had just broken up with him. And now, I had to do it a second time. And all I wanted to say to him was. I don't want to date anyone who is crazy, like you!!!!

3 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Are you ready for me yet?

8:17 AM  
Blogger Lady in Waiting said...

I've been waiting all my life for a nice jewish man. I have yet to find one that pays attention to all of my comments!

10:20 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey no knocking the crazy guys- good post

7:58 PM  

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