I will not call him!

So, I went against my word. I dated again. This time, I had multiple sources that the guy would be normal, that he is not mentally lacking, and that he is normal. I say normal twice becuase I asked that about ten times. It was my main concern. So this is how it went. Afte checking him out, I finally said yes. The shadchan told him that I said yes and I waited. And I waited. About 2 weeks later I called the shadchan and told her he didn't call. She spoke to him briefly and he said that he had left a message. Let me tell you, there was no message to be had. So she told me to call him. Ok, I gave in. I called him, even though I am an old fashioned girl, I called him. We set a date. Made it for the next night cause I was going out of town the following day. When I finally set a time and place for us to meet, I hung up the phone. I said "I" becuase I did the deciding. Let me tell you, I don't like being the man in a relationship. I just like it. I want to be treated like a girl, protected, and want to feel beautiful. This didn't make me feel like anyone of those. Ok, fine. I got over it (or am getting over it.) The next day I went to meet him. He was more than a half hour late. Me being who I am gives everyone 10 min. lee-way in nyc cause of subway trafic and such. But over 30 min. lee-way is a lot. He finally got there and then we went to the place I had selected, making a few stops along the way, with him talking most of the time. I'm going to skip the rest cause i feel as if it doesn't really matter how the rest of the date went. When i spoke to the shadchan, she told me he had a great time, and wants to go out again. Now, do I let these few things bother me, or do I just get over them. The shadchan advised me to give him another shot cause it was the first date and you can't really feel a person from the first date with nervers and everything. Ok, fine. I said yes, she convinced me. She's right in a way, maybe I was in a bad mode that day and everything seemed huge eventhough it was little. So I said I would go out again. This was before the sukkot holiday. To this day, I'm still waiting for him to call. Ok, there was a holiday, yes I give him that, but it's been over two weeks. There has had to have been a time when it wasn't a holiday and he could call me. Is it rude of me to say I will not call him? Well, I'm a woman, I should be treated like one. I refuse to be the man in the relationship. That's what men are for. I'm putting my foot down, I will not call him.
I will not call him!